The Weight of... Your Family on your shoulders?

Back again people this will be my SECOND posting in one day, thanks for the 61 views by the way especially with only two postings on my blog so far... talk about feeling special huh? Haha, no seriously thanks for the love you all, especially since the first post sucked and the second wasn't much better.

This post will be directed towards all those people going through a tough time with family and friends, because I know how it feels to think that you can never quench the thirst of your family's satisfaction. I know where you all are at, to actually believe that the world has turned her back on you, that sense of loneliness and separation from everyone and everything.

Let me begin with telling you that you are NEVER alone, you will always have at least that one true friend and that one family member who you can count on for any and everything no matter the situation, need, or incident. Secondly let me tell you that it's all in your head. The lonely feeling, the thoughts that you have no one to count on its all not true. There are tons of people out there who love you and care about you, some who wont vocalize it and some who will only show it in actions.

There was a time in my life where I had made some pretty crummy decisions and I let everyone around me down... I felt like a complete failure, but I wasn't :) I thought that the only one who cared about me was God but only because he had no choice in the matter, boy did he open my eyes. He showed me that life was about finding YOUR OWN happiness and drive, in and for life. He hammered in the fact that my life was full of making my own decisions and that the only person's whose expectations I SHOULD meet were his... even then it wasn't even mandatory for me to meet his expectations I had the choice of whether or not I wanted to.

When I was going through this time of basically depression I talked to my friends, well best-friend and she told me that as long as I would remember the things that brought joy to my life then no matter how challenging life seemed like it got, there would be nothing that I couldn't handle. Then she assured me that no matter how hard things would get I'd never be alone and as long as I was happy with my life then who cares about living up to what others wanted me to be or do, and she would support me with anything I decided to do.

So steps to countering the Weight of Your Family on Your Shoulders
1)Know that you are never alone
2)You have the choice to live your life the way you want
3)Identify your joy bringers and hold them close
4)Have a best-friend that you know will support any decision you make and will always be there for you
5)Realize that THIS IS YOUR LIFE, ARE YOU WHO YOU WANT TO BE? and if so then why does it matter what anyone else thinks?

If anyone ever needs a listening ear then PM(private message) through my profile.
Later days! and thanks again for the views!

You Can Have It

Take my title, and screw religion!


I know many people are wondering, "Screw religion!!!!... I thought this guy professed to be a Christian." Check this out people, even in the bible, God... MY God speaks out against religion and the titles that people put on themselves. The only true thing that God wants us to do is live true to him, accept his son, and follow his word, he calls us all for one thing which is the Great Commission. Honestly God could careless about what header you put on your faith as long as you follow him.

Matthew 28:19

Therefore go and make disciples of ALL nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

If you do this and accept his son then why... WHY does it matter what label you place on it? Whether you're Catholic, Jewish, Baptist, or Pentecostal none of that matters to me, and honestly I don't believe any of that matters to God either. What I'm saying people don't let the label, the title, the header, or religion blind you to the true purpose of our calling. 

So go people and make disciples, don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and witness to people in other countries, cities, and states. There are people out there who hunger to here the word and who have never even heard the word, so who are we to deprive them of knowing the true happiness and unconditional love of God by not sharing with them and reaching out to them? So again don't harp on the title! If you know what I know then don't let anything stop you from sharing what you have found.

Stepping Out into the Blogger Scene

Ok so I'm new to this whole lets blog deal. A couple of friends have been talking to me like, "Hey dude you should blog, its really fun and a good way to let your thoughts and frustrations out." I looked at them and thought to myself, "Hey guys, I really don't think wasting hours in front of a computer screen is truly resolving your problems, only postponing the inevitable breakdown." But hey what can i say... here i am writing a blog of my own.

I guess I'm not really doing this to vent or anything, just to allow outsiders a view from their own "window" into my life. There is one thing I've noticed about people these day with their everyday relations with one another and that is that NO ONE really knows who anyone is anymore. Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself: 1)What are my neighbors name? 2)Do they know my name? 3)Can I count on anyone outside my family to be there for me in a time of need? 4)Will my family be there for me in a time of need?

Those are just a few questions that you can answer easily when you really know the people around you. Like I said this blogging things is new to me and I know this first blog of mine is kind of crummy but they will be better, promise you that :)   Hopefully one day you can be like, "Wow, I feel like I really know this person."